Why Training Your Intuition Is Important — And Why Listening to It Is Even More So

Not listening cost me time and hundreds of thousands of dollars. What changed when I finally listened — and how you can learn to follow your own guidance before life forces the lesson.

What if one of the biggest reasons certain people become magnetic, successful, and visionary isn't just strategy, talent, or hard work? What if part of their success comes from something far less talked about, but no less real — intuition, energetic awareness, and psychic intelligence?

I know that word can make some people squirm, so let me say this plainly: most of the visionary, highly successful people I know aren't walking around calling themselves psychic. They're not introducing themselves as empaths. They're not posting about being "channels" on the internet.

But many of them are deeply intuitive, whether they use that language or not. They read people quickly. They sense timing. They know when to move and when to wait. They feel when something is off before there's any logical proof. They trust a deeper inner knowing, even if they don't fully understand how it works.

That's not luck. That's not random. That's intuition — and in many cases, it's psychic ability that hasn't yet been named, developed, or used intentionally.

What Does It Mean to Be Psychic?

Being psychic doesn't mean you're floating through the grocery store in a velvet cape predicting everyone's divorce. It means you have access to information beyond the five senses. It means you pick up on energy, patterns, timing, emotions, truth, and possibility in ways that go beyond logic alone.

Psychic intelligence can look like:

• ✦ Knowing who's about to call before your phone rings
• ✦ Sensing the truth of a situation before the facts catch up
• ✦ Reading the energy in a room the second you walk in
• ✦ Getting a strong yes or no in your body before your mind has an opinion
• ✦ Feeling when someone isn't telling the truth
• ✦ Having vivid dreams, intuitive hits, or sudden clarity that turns out to be right

Why Intuition Matters for Success

The most successful, visionary people I know don't succeed because they force everything. They succeed because they've learned how to listen — to timing, to energy, to what feels aligned and what doesn't, to their body, their intuition, and the deeper truth underneath appearances.

Intuition helps people:

• ✦ Make better decisions, faster
• ✦ Sense opportunities before they're obvious
• ✦ Avoid misaligned relationships, projects, and business moves
• ✦ Trust themselves under pressure
• ✦ Lead with clarity instead of constant second-guessing

"There's a whole secret world behind the most magnetic, successful, visionary people I know. They're simply using a guidance system most people have never been taught how to trust."

Client Story: The Burned-Out Film Producer

Let's call her Z. She's a brilliant, sought-after film producer whose career looked shiny from the outside — but whose inner world was exhausted, overstimulated, and disconnected from herself. She had spent years trying to force herself into spaces that simply weren't right for her nervous system or her gifts.

After working together:

• ✦ She doubled her income
• ✦ Her nervous system is regulated and no longer running in survival mode
• ✦ Her creativity flows again because she stopped overriding her own knowing
• ✦ She trusts what she senses instead of dismissing it

Client Story: The Attorney Who Reads Energy Like a Jedi

Then there's G. A powerful attorney with a brilliant mind and serious courtroom presence. Her secret gift? She can read energy in a courtroom. She can feel dynamics shift before anyone says a word. Yet when we met, she was overwhelmed, stretched thin, and stuck in a loop of second-guessing herself.

Now she listens to herself more deeply. She makes decisions that nourish rather than deplete. She trusts her inner compass. That's not just intuition. That's psychic self-leadership.

7 Signs You May Be More Psychic Than You Think

What Happens When You Stop Hiding Your Intuition From Yourself

When you stop dismissing your own knowing, everything changes. You make cleaner decisions. You trust yourself faster. You waste less time forcing things that aren't aligned. You stop betraying your own energy to make everyone else comfortable.

You become more creative, more regulated, more honest, and more powerful. And no — this doesn't mean you need to start calling yourself psychic on Instagram tomorrow. But you do have to stop hiding it from yourself.

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"Shamanic Love Coaching lives at the intersection of ancient wisdom and modern healing — and it may be one of the most profound and misunderstood forms of transformation available today."

If you've never heard the term "Shamanic Love Coach" before, you're not alone. It's not a title you find in a university catalog or a corporate directory. And yet for thousands of women around the world, it has been the missing piece that no amount of therapy, journaling, or conventional coaching could provide.

So let me explain what it actually is, why it works, and how I know — because everything I teach is something I have personally used myself.

Not because I handed them a formula — but because I helped them come back to themselves first. That is the heart of Shamanic Love Coaching.

What Is Shamanic Love Coaching?

Shamanic Love Coaching is the intersection of ancient shamanic healing practices and modern coaching — applied specifically to the domain of love, relationships, and the way you connect with yourself and others.

The word "shamanic" refers to a tradition of healing that goes back thousands of years across many cultures worldwide. Shamanic practitioners work across what I call the seen and unseen worlds — meaning they don't just address what's visible on the surface of a situation, but also what's happening at the energetic, ancestral, and soul level underneath.

When you apply that lens to love — to how you give it, receive it, block it, and experience it — you get something far more powerful than conventional relationship coaching. Shamanic Love Coaching works at the ROOT.

The Root Cause Approach — DNA & Epigenetics

One of the most unique aspects of my work is my ability to find the root cause of love blocks — and those roots often run far deeper than this lifetime.

What epigenetics tells us is that our DNA carries the emotional experiences of our ancestors. Trauma, abandonment, betrayal, loss — these experiences don't just affect the person who lived them. They get passed down through generations, quietly shaping how we feel about ourselves, how safe we feel to love, and what we believe is possible for us in relationships.

"This is why some patterns feel so stubborn. They aren't just habits. They're encoded. You can't think your way out of something that lives in your nervous system, your energy body, and your ancestral lineage."

Love Is the Greatest Healer

Everything I do carries one common thread: bringing people back to Love. Not romantic love as a destination — Love as a frequency. Love as a state of being. Love as the most powerful healing force on the planet.

When we are aligned with Love — when we feel it for ourselves, when we can receive it from others, when we trust it enough to stay open — everything shifts. Relationships heal. Creativity returns. Health improves. Abundance flows more easily. This isn't spiritual bypassing. This is energetic science.

Who Needs a Shamanic Love Coach?

How It's Different From Therapy or Regular Coaching

Therapy tends to focus on the past and the psychological. Regular coaching tends to focus on the future and behavior. Shamanic Love Coaching bridges both — while also working at the energetic, ancestral, and spiritual level that most modalities never touch.

I combine shamanic healing, the Emotion Code, psychic intuition, energy clearing, and practical coaching tools into one integrated approach. Every session is unique to the person in front of me. This is not a one-size-fits-all program. This is bespoke soul medicine.

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"Your sensitivity is not a flaw. It is your greatest superpower." — Janice Noehulani

Have you ever walked into a room and immediately felt the mood shift — before anyone said a word? Do you find yourself exhausted after social gatherings, carrying emotions that don't quite feel like yours? Do people constantly come to you with their problems because you just seem to understand?

If any of that sounds familiar, there's a very good chance you are an empath. And if you are — this post is for you.

What Is an Empath?

An empath is someone with the extraordinary ability to feel and absorb the emotions, energies, and even physical sensations of the world around them — as if they were their own. Empaths are deeply intuitive, often knowing what others feel before they express it.

This allows you to connect deeply, love fiercely, and hold space for healing. It also means you are a powerful manifestor. But without the right tools and awareness, you may find yourself depleted, overwhelmed, or lost in the emotional currents of others.

The goal isn't to stop feeling. The goal is to learn how to feel without losing yourself.

5 Signs You Are an Empath

The Different Types of Empaths

Most empaths carry more than one type of sensitivity. Here are the most common — notice which feel most like home to you:

So You're an Empath — What Do You Do About It?

The answer is not to stop feeling. The answer is to learn how to work WITH your gifts instead of being run by them.

Here are the four pillars I teach in my Empath's Guide to Thrive:

"The way you begin your day and end your day will give you consistent wins — reinforcing positive outcomes again and again."

You Are Not Too Sensitive — You Are Powerfully Gifted

The world has spent a long time telling empaths that they're too much — too sensitive, too emotional, too intense. I want you to hear something different: your sensitivity is not a flaw. It is your greatest superpower.

The empaths I work with are some of the most powerful, creative, magnetic, and healing people I have ever met. They just needed the right tools to stop surviving their gift and start thriving with it. That's exactly what this work is for.

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You are likely dating for who you were — not who you are now. And until that changes, the pattern will keep repeating.

Have you ever looked around at your dating history and noticed a pattern? Different names, different faces — but somehow the same dynamic playing out again and again? The emotionally unavailable one. The one who needed saving. The one who was wonderful at first and then slowly became someone else entirely.

If you've done the inner work — read the books, done the therapy, journaled until your hand ached — and the pattern still persists, I want to offer you a different explanation. One that goes deeper than mindset. One that finally makes the pattern make sense.

You Are Dating for Who You Were

Here's one of the most important things I have learned in over 30 years of working with thousands of women: your energetic field attracts matches to your current frequency — not your desire, not your intentions, not who you're working to become. Who you are vibrationally, right now.

And for many women, that frequency was set a long time ago — by experiences, by patterns absorbed from parents and ancestors, by old wounds around love that were never fully healed.

So even as you grow, heal, and evolve — if you haven't cleared the old energetic programming, you keep broadcasting the old signal. And the universe keeps sending matches for that old signal.

The Ancestral Layer Most People Miss

With Julie, we didn't just look at her dating history. We looked at her lineage. Her ancestral patterns around love, availability, and worthiness. The stories that had been passed down — not in words, but in energy, in the body, in the nervous system.

Epigenetics now confirms what shamanic healers have always known: our DNA carries the emotional imprints of our ancestors. Patterns of abandonment, betrayal, scarcity, and unlovability don't just disappear. They get passed down — until someone in the lineage does the work to clear them.

"The pattern isn't a flaw in your character. It's a frequency that was inherited — and it can be cleared."

The 3 Steps That Broke Julie's Pattern

Signs You Might Be in This Pattern

What Changes When You Do This Work

Julie's story didn't end with her just meeting someone new. It ended with her meeting herself — fully, for the first time. The right relationship followed naturally from that.

When you clear the old patterns at the root, update your energetic frequency to who you actually are now, and learn to trust and honor your intuition — the whole landscape of your love life changes. Not because you found the perfect person. But because you finally became available to the love that was always meant for you.

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Some emotions don't just pass through us. They get stuck — lodged in the body, the nervous system, the energy field — and they keep running the show long after the moment that created them is gone.

Have you ever felt like something was holding you back — a heaviness you couldn't name, a grief that wouldn't lift, a block that no amount of positive thinking seemed to move? Chances are you're dealing with what I call a trapped emotion. And one of the fastest, most effective tools I know for releasing them is the Emotion Code.

In over 30 years of working with clients, I have used many modalities. When someone simply needs to move stuck emotions — quickly, clearly, and at the root — the Emotion Code is one of the most powerful tools in my toolkit. Here's what it is, how it works, and what it can do for you.

What Is the Emotion Code?

The Emotion Code is an energy healing method developed by Dr. Bradley Nelson. It is based on the understanding that unprocessed emotional experiences don't simply disappear — they become trapped in the body as energetic imprints, disrupting physical, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing.

These trapped emotions can influence how you feel, how you relate to others, how you make decisions, and even how your body functions. They can be emotions you experienced personally — or emotions inherited from your ancestors, passed down through your lineage in your DNA.

The Emotion Code uses muscle testing (kinesiology) to identify which specific emotions are trapped, where they originated, and then releases them using a simple but powerful energy technique. What makes it unique is its speed and precision — in one session, multiple trapped emotions can be identified and cleared that might take months to surface through conventional methods.

"When someone needs to move emotions — I mean really move them, not just talk about them — the Emotion Code is one of the fastest modalities I know. The results can be felt within hours."

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What Can the Emotion Code Help With?

The Emotion Code can be used for virtually any area where trapped emotions are creating blocks, heaviness, or stuckness. In my work, I use it to address:

How I Use It in My Work

The Emotion Code is one tool in an integrated approach. I don't use it in every session — I use it specifically when someone needs to move emotions. When the block is primarily emotional and what's needed is release rather than strategy, the Emotion Code is often the fastest and most precise path.

I combine it with shamanic healing, psychic intuition, and energy clearing to address the full picture — not just the surface emotion, but the root it's connected to, including ancestral layers and timeline events that most modalities never reach.

The result is a depth of clearing that clients often describe as finally feeling like themselves again — lighter, clearer, and free to move forward in a way that felt impossible before.

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"I Love You. Please forgive me. Thank you. I am sorry." Four phrases. Spoken with sincerity. And the power to change absolutely anything.

I have been practicing Ho'oponopono since my early thirties. I use it daily — in my own life, with my clients, and in situations that most people would consider hopeless. Court cases. Custody battles. Long-standing family disputes. Worry over loved ones. Children who are struggling.

In every case, when the practice is applied with genuine sincerity and deep responsibility, things shift. Sometimes slowly. Often with what I can only describe as quantum speed.

What Is Ho'oponopono?

Ho'oponopono is an ancient Hawaiian spiritual practice of forgiveness, reconciliation, and deep personal responsibility. Traditionally, it was used within families and communities to heal conflict, restore harmony, and clear the energetic and karmic debts that arise between people.

In its modern form — as taught by Dr. Hew Len and the Foundation of I — Ho'oponopono is based on a radical and profound idea: that everything we experience in our lives is a reflection of something within us. Not as blame, but as responsibility. And as responsibility, it becomes something we can heal.

The practice centers on four simple phrases — spoken from the heart, directed inward, to the Divine:

That's it. Four phrases. But when spoken from a place of genuine humility and love — directed not at the other person, but at the Divine within you — the results can be extraordinary.

The Secret: Deep Responsibility

What makes Ho'oponopono so different from other forgiveness practices is its foundational principle: total responsibility.

Dr. Hew Len taught that we are each 100% responsible for everything in our experience — not because we caused it consciously, but because everything we perceive is filtered through our own consciousness, our own "data," our own memories. When we take responsibility for clearing that data — when we stop blaming the other person, the situation, the past — healing becomes possible at a speed that defies ordinary logic.

"When someone takes deep responsibility for their life, anything can change quickly. That is the miracle of Ho'oponopono."

How I Use It With Clients

How to Practice Ho'oponopono

The beauty of Ho'oponopono is its simplicity. You do not need a ceremony. You do not need the other person. You do not need perfect conditions. You just need sincerity.

Why Ho'oponopono Is One of the Easiest and Most Practical Tools for Change

In a world full of complex healing modalities, Ho'oponopono stands apart in its accessibility. You need no special training to begin. No equipment. No ceremony. No appointment.

You can practice it in traffic. In the middle of a difficult conversation. Before a court date. At 3am when you can't sleep and the worry feels unbearable. Beside your child's bed. In the shower. Walking to your car.

The only requirement is willingness — the willingness to take responsibility, to offer love, and to trust that the Divine does the rest.

Frequently Asked Questions

Not listening to my intuition cost me time and hundreds of thousands of dollars. Listening to it changed everything. Here is that story — and what I want you to learn from it.

I teach intuition. I have taught it to thousands of people over more than three decades. The tools I use have a 100% success rate of increasing both intuitive ability and trust in that ability. I have watched lives transform, businesses explode, relationships heal, and creative gifts finally come alive — all because someone learned to hear and trust their inner knowing.

And yet — I am also someone who has paid an enormous price for not listening to my own.

What Intuition Actually Is

I want to offer you my definition of intuition — because I think it reframes everything.

"Intuition is small to big nudges along your path — keeping you on your highest path. The wisdom is always flowing through you. The question is whether you choose to listen."

Intuition is not random. It is not dramatic. It is not reserved for psychics or mystics or people who burn incense and meditate for three hours a day. It is the intelligence of your highest self, your soul, the Divine — constantly communicating with you through feeling, sensation, knowing, timing, and quiet certainty.

The problem lies in our free will. We are always free to listen — or not. We are always free to trust — or override. And when we override long enough, we pay the price. In time. In money. In energy. In relationships. In opportunities missed and paths not taken.

Why We Don't Listen — Even When We Hear

This is the part no one talks about enough. Most people aren't failing to hear their intuition. They're choosing — consciously or unconsciously — not to follow it.

Why Training Your Intuition Matters

Here is what I know after 30+ years and thousands of clients: intuition is a skill. Like any skill, it can be developed, refined, and strengthened. And when it is — when you can clearly hear, recognize, and trust your inner knowing — life becomes fundamentally different.

The tools I teach have a 100% success rate of increasing both intuitive ability and trust in that ability. Not because I have a magic formula — but because intuition is already in you. It has always been in you. What we are doing in training is clearing the interference so you can finally hear what was always there.

But Training Is Only Half of It

Here is the part that most intuition teachers skip: knowing is not enough. Hearing is not enough. You have to actually follow it.

I knew what my intuition was telling me during that dark season of grief and exhaustion. I heard it clearly. And I chose — again and again — not to follow it. Because I was afraid. Because I was tired. Because changing felt harder than staying.

This is where most people lose the game. Not in the hearing. In the following. Because following your intuition often means doing the thing that makes no logical sense, that others won't understand, that feels risky or unknown or impossibly vulnerable. And that requires not just developed intuition — but trust. Deep, practiced, earned trust in yourself and in the Divine intelligence guiding you.

"Once I finally listened — truly listened and followed — my effort became effortless. Money flowed. Clients arrived. Joy returned. Not because the world had changed. Because I had aligned with the wisdom that had been there all along."

How to Begin Listening More Deeply Right Now

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